Compulsive video and computer game use sparked a spirited interchange on the Dr. Phil Show last Monday.   Concern about violent video games showed how addiction turns many relationships into a train wreck.  Our MediaWise® work here at the Institute was cited as a leading resource for parents, especially on how violent video games and addiction affect children’s brain development.

Real life folks painfully paint stories of relationships on the rocks because video games or the computer have taken over a person’s life.  When the game is more important than the people or the job, school or other responsibilities in your life, then addiction is the problem.  Intervention with a real honest assessment, perhaps with professional help, is needed.   This is why it is so important for parents to carefully teach their kids self-control when it comes to video games.  Limit their use.  Help your kids to be able to say “no” and choose another activity.   Good video games are fun and they can be highly addictive for some kids.  If kids don’t develop the self control they need when they are young, it may be impossible for them to say no when they get older and on into adulthood.  At that point relationships, jobs and school are at risk.

If you or someone you know is at risk see our resources for video game addiction.

What rules do you have for video game use in your home?

Dr. Dave